Coaching for betrayal healing
If you're walking through the firestorm of sexual betrayal, you may be feeling numb, overwhelmed, furious, confused. Maybe you've done your best to forgive and get on with life. Maybe you've been in a kind of functional freeze, unable to access the peace you want, unable to stop long enough to think about it.
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The APSATS model of healing from sexual betrayal begins with safety and stabilisation, settling the reactivity and discomfort of a brain on hyperalert. Once some boundaries and care are in place for support, the necessary work of figuring out what it all means through grief processes can take place. This all paves the way for post-traumatic growth, reconnecting with self and life and God and meaning with renewed strength, clarity and peace.
There are many benefits of coaching for betrayal healing
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Recognise triggers and gain confidence in responding to them
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Establish boundaries that will help with your sense of safety
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Clearly communicate your needs to your husband and others
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Replace your feeling of “crazy” with confidence
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Back yourself with a reliable support system
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Feel secure that you have a plan for your worst case scenario
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Step authentically into your God-given power and identity
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Get clarity about your reality
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Be more connected with God and yourself
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Work out your priorities and live them wholeheartedly
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Grieve your losses to honour them with true meaning
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Forgive and let go
Reach out via the contact form or book a 30 minute chat today to take the next step towards your healing.
Some useful resources
The Emotionally Destructive Marriage
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For couples:
Full Disclosure books by Drake and Caudill
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