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Mar 5
Wisdom for engaging with difficult people
Engaging with a person who refuses to take responsibility for harmful actions


Sep 27, 2024
Sexual betrayal - should I smooth it over?
Am I making too much of the pain I feel in my betrayal? Might it be better to smooth it over and move on? God seems to say otherwise.


Sep 21, 2024
God as a betrayed partner
God understands how you feel as a betrayed spouse. The emotional depth portrayed in the book of Jeremiah speaks to his experience of this.


Apr 9, 2024
Coaching - what is it and how can it help me?
Wondering if coaching is what you need?


Dec 14, 2023
Christmas realities after betrayal
Give yourself two gifts this Christmas - permission and awareness.


Nov 30, 2023
What is betrayal trauma?
Betrayal trauma deeply impacts on many levels.


Jul 26, 2023
Healing from betrayal trauma through little choices
What small habit might make a big difference in healing from betrayal trauma?


Jul 7, 2023
The gift of fog
Fog provides a picture of the impacts of trauma.


Jun 21, 2023
How to bring healing with a good apology, part 3
A healing apology carefully considers the cost of your actions to the other person and demonstrates willingness to pay.


Jun 14, 2023
How to bring healing with a good apology, part 2
A humble apology has power to heal through honest, thoughtful words and commitment to change.


Jun 7, 2023
How to bring healing with a good apology, part 1
What does it look like to bring about healing in our relationships with a genuine "sorry"?


May 31, 2023
Six ways to move towards calmer when triggered
It's normal to experience triggers when traumatised by sexual betrayal. Your sense of safety is likely all out of whack because you've...


May 3, 2023
Support groups for betrayal trauma
Why do support groups help healing? The experience of betrayal trauma shatters and isolates. No matter how your husband acts out, finding...


Apr 5, 2023
Choose confidently on your journey to wholeness
When you get to a place in life where you feel stuck, it can feel like choice has been taken away. Conflict, betrayal, loss, change - all...


Apr 5, 2023
Engage with clarity in your present reality
One difficult part of getting traction when life is hard is figuring out what is actually going on. Maybe you thought you understood how...


Apr 5, 2023
Stand solidly in your God-given identity
As Jesus was facing the betrayal, abandonment, injustice, abuse and mockery we know as Good Friday, we are given this incredible insight...
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