About Me

​Hello, I'm Jane Gibb, lead coach and founder at Quiet Wisdom. Every day I am privileged to walk on the sacred ground of holding gentle, empowered spaces for women hurting because of betrayal and relational conflict. These are women, like me, who didn't ask for this pain, this challenge, this inside-out and upside-down of the life story they expected. And bravely, determinedly, they reach for help in the firestorm of  betrayal trauma. Slowly, deliberately, they choose life from the ashes of loss, light from the confusion of darkness,  connection that combats isolation and shame. 

When my own unexpected, undesired story broke into my awareness a few years back, I experienced the stunned shock, the reeling thoughts, the closing in of the world I knew. I remember the disorientation, the fear and the anger. How could this be my life?

From that place, I determined not to waste my pain. I believed that  new wine would result from the crushing.  I found skilled support. I connected with useful, hopeful resources and community. And slowly, deliberately, a new story was forged in my life. A story where pain is not the main character; hope is. A story of finding myself and deeper connection with God and others. It hasn’t been easy, and I don’t believe I will ever get to a place where I stop working on me. I want you to know that your hard times - your betrayal, disappointment and loss - will not have the last word. Your pain can be redeemed.

As a certified APSATS coach, credentialed with the ICF, I offer professional one-on-one and group support for partners of porn addicts and cheaters. I specialise in helping women find wholeness and freedom after intimate betrayal.